Self-Respect

Ok so I'm just going to get right into it.....

As femme's we need to know our worth and stop presenting ourselves as trashy, weak, ghetto, and naiive and the many other ways that we present ourselves... Where's the self-respect ladies?

I don't know if its just me or what, but i can't stand to see a beautiful lady selling herself short. Selling yourself short like you're worthless...first  things first: PLEASE Stop calling yourself a B*tch... WTH! That is not cute and it shows how much you really think of yourself...men will treat us how we allow them to. Disrepecting yourself means that he and anyone else can treat you the same way because that's how high you hold yourself.
Second: Stop sleepin with multiple men. IT'S NASTY!
Third: Stop going out with everything hanging out...That is not cute...you look disgusting. If you so decided to do so and guy grabs you or steps to you wrong... PLEASE don't be offended...you did it to yourself!
That covers trashy...lets move to weak....

Why are we acting weak...we're so much stronger that we know.
*To all the ladies with FAKE friends...please let them go...they are a waste of your time.
I like to call them the "CONVENIENT" friend...you know the ones that only kick it with you    when its convenient for them...Use you for all  you have and then drop you...want you to do EVERYTHING for them and do NOTHING for you....Yeah...umm i'm cool on that...Stick with the one's who've been there for you through thick-n-thin and vise versa.
*To all the ladies with these WEAK men that down you, make you feel less than your worth, use you, don't treat you like a queen.....LET HIM GO!
I know its not always as easy to do, but talk to someone...(and NOT the man hating girl that doesn't know how to keep a man...she'll mess you up everytime- while you're at it...get rid of her too).
* All the ladies that let everyone walk all over them...GET A FREAKIN' BACKBONE...SIDE BONE...Heck...ONE IN THE FRONT TOO!..LOL! My bad...i had a moment.
I guess being naive ties into this a lil bit...all i have to say is stop acting dumb!! If something  is right in front of your face and plain,...take it for what it is... Keep moving foward. He or she is not worth your happiness whether it be your man or friend...

OMG!!!!Ghetto....Why do ya'll act soo freakin' Ghetto...i'm mean seriously... Who does that?
That is so NOT cute. That is a complete turn off to a man who has alot  going for himself. IDK about you, but i'm so over the hustler type guys... That Life only lasts for so long and...Its plaid...Get yourself together so that you can get a man that has himself together.


Ok...enough about this self respect thing...i'm pretty sure you all get the hint!.. LIVE, LOVE, and Have a GREAT day!!!!!